• withabeard@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    Health insurance is HOW MUCH!

    And there are Brits here saying how great private care is and how much they want it… fucking turkeys to christmas.

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      There’s a reason why literally no other country in the world is imitating the US healthcare insurance system.

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      11 months ago

      Haven’t heard of that phrase but it’s an apt analogy for my fellow Brits. Same with Brexit. Wasn’t till afterwards did they realize that what they voted for and were upset. Heaven forbid you listen to those warning you about it.

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      If you read the actual original Investopedia article, most of these claimed costs make silly assumptions about the definition of “The American Dream” and a lot of the data is cherry picked.

      They claim the “American dream” requires an $800k house at an over 7% interest rate and they assume you only put 10% down.

      They claim the “American dream” involves buying a different used car every 6 years.

      They claim the “American dream” involves spending $70k on pets over the course of your lifetime.

      Its an interesting exercise, but the assumptions are weird and the headline is sensational.

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        If we assume a generous pet lifespan of 15 years that’s not unreasonable that’s like $400/mo which depending on what your pet needs food wise and how much you spoil them is easily met

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        If you have pets bigger than a hamster, 70k in your lifetime seems reasonable, even low. That around 1k per year.

        And a different used car every 6 years is borderline frugal. My dream would be a new car every 3 years.

        I don’t see the data to be so bad. Even the house financing is realistic (heavily dependent on location, of course).

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        11 months ago

        The $800k house figure includes interest payments. So the value of the home will be much, much less than $800k.

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        As an average, those assumptions are downright modest. The cliche of a house with a white picket fence, a wife, 2.5 kids, a dog, and a mortgage line up pretty well with that.

        Granted, this isn’t everyone’s dream, and it doesn’t apply everywhere. But I would bet that the majority of people in this country would describe that as the cost to live that cliche.

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    11 months ago

    … median lifetime earnings for the typical U.S. worker stand at $1.7 million…

    And Musk makes over 3.5x that amount in a single day.

    Three and a half lifetimes of work per day, and nobody wants to do anything about the billionaire problem?

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      But you don’t understand. Billionaires earn their money. They’re superior to us. They make that much because they’re just much better people than the rest of us. If you stood next to Musk you would notice the heat radiating from his head as his massive Iron-Man like intellect dwarfs your puny brain. You should be in awe of his superiority and beg to have his children (even if you’re a guy). Clearly they should be rewarded for all their helping society and their taxes should be LOWERED, not increased.

      The REAL billionaire problem is that we don’t have enough of them!

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        You’re half right (there is no finite pool of money) but your conclusion is bonkers. Rich people are not spending their money, they’re using it to outbid each other for control of existing assets. So that they can overcharge ordinary people to access the things that they need.

        The boots are not that tasty. Stop fucking yourself over for a chance to lick them.

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          Always the same. Someone says what amounts to quit whining and try, the excuses start

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        If money is imaginary then why can’t we guarantee food, shelter, clothing, and education for every single human on this planet.

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    To put it in perspective… I inherited my mom’s house, retirement, life savings, car, etc. And I am still very limited in buying a new home where I actually want to live, bc of how outrageous prices are. Just imagine… almost 70 years of her life, and I can’t do what my dad and his first wife easily did at age 20 working as a restaurant manager. Insane.

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    It costs lives too. Exploitation is hard baked into any $ucc€$$fu££ vulture venture or ideology

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    Retirement: $715,958

    And this is why I likely won’t be able to retire. At a recent retirement meeting my company gave, they said that people should be putting 15% of their income into retirement. However, I can’t afford to do this. Not even close.

    I live a pretty frugal life. I don’t vacation. I rarely go out to eat or order food in. I plan my meals and only buy what we need. I drive a 14 year old car that’s paid off. Still, my expenses, while less than my income, wouldn’t let me reduce my pretax income by 15%.

    I’m 48 and I doubt if I’ll have 20% of the figure above when it comes time to retire.

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      And still 700K for retirement is still low since I’m sure they’re using the US median salary and the old adage of saving 10 times your salary for retirement. So far every place I’ve worked and attended the financial seminar, my own retirement manager, and my sister who works in the industry have told me you really should be saving 15 - 20 time your salary if you want to live comfortably.

      So to me what this article is saying is that you’ll need that just so you can live pay check to pay check through retirement and still be stressed the fuck out and at risk for being homeless in your golden years.

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      I assume you’re in the US? Because many other developed countries rely a lot less on private retirement savings and a lot more on public retirement programs in order to get everyone covered.

      Of course, that means higher earners would have to pay more into programs similar to social security through taxes to cover lower earners, which many Americans are not willing to do.

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      Are you me? Wow.

      Now, I don’t know where you live, but Canada at least has old age security (and a pension plan) that should offset a good chunk of your expenses when you retire.

      That’s in addition to whatever you do manage to put away.

      However, it really helps if you own a home and are mortgage free by the time you hit retirement age.

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        I do own my house and hopefully will be mortgage free by the time I retire (or hit retirement age). I’m in New York State. Social Security would theoretically help, but who knows if it’ll be around in 30 years. If it’s not, I’ll be working until I’m 90. If it is, I might be able to retire at 75. Assuming I don’t have any large, unexpected expenses (which is a huge assumption).

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        US also has Social Security to help fund a basic retirement but it’s pretty minimal. It is enough to keep you from living on cat food

        I also can’t finish paying off my mortgage before I should retire and given rampant ageism, I don’t know whether I’ll be able to find a job that long. And Social Security won’t cover my mortgage plus utilities

        And even worse, Social Security needs adjustments to be able to continue meeting its commitments. The longer our political leaders avoid that, the more impact it will have when they are forced to do their jobs

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      Do you mind me asking, what do you do? Do you own or rent your residence?

      I’m 41, and really striving to hit those numbers too and I feel like I’m doing pretty well with my position in life… it’s just life seems to be getting away from me as I look into the future and see my kids getting much more expensive.

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        I’m a web developer. I own my house, but am still paying the mortgage. (So I guess I don’t technically fully own it yet.) I’m in a decent position financially at the moment - my income exceeds my expenses. Still, I’ve had some big financial hits recently ($3,600 for hearing aids for me, $1,000+ for tests to rule out cancer for my wife, $750 for a new dryer when our old one died, the potential new car that I might need to buy,…).

        So while I’m able to keep my head above water, financially, I’m not able to put enough away to secure my retirement. Also, one big adverse event (medical crisis, job loss with unsuccessful job search, etc) and my current financial state could go from “decent in the short term” to “drowning in debt.”

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          That’s wild. Like 4k of that isn’t anything I’d consider an expense due to universal health and insurance that covers the gaps.

          I hope you are able to remain stable though.

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      Yeah, I think these rules (US) were made by people doing the math, without considering reality. It’s real easy to set aside a good amount to retire, as long as you set aside the recommended percentage throughout your career.

      Of course the reality is that most of us will never do that. Many of us will get divorced and lose half what we put aside. Many of us will have financial emergencies such as medical emergencies, or being out of a job. Many of us will just be scraping by and can’t afford to set aside that much of our pay. Many of us just won’t have the perspective to be willing to set aside money for retirement many decades away. More importantly , most of us will hit those conditions sometime in our career and it’s just not realistic

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    Some costs might be lower or higher, depending on a family’s goals. For instance, some might pay for more than one-year of college for their children, while others might buy fewer cars.

    Wedding and engagement ring: $35,800

    One year of college for two kids: $42,080

    Pets: $67,935

    Average cost to buy a home, including lifetime mortgage payments: $796,998

    Are you really buying a house if you never finish paying for it?

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      And you effectively never truly own the house, if you stop paying property taxes on it the city/county takes it.

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      Yes, because you have equity. You have partial ownership from the first payment until the last. If shit hits the fan, you can choose to sell it for whatever your portion of ownership is worth.

      You also don’t (generally) have to ask permission on what you do with your property.

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    Considering the Earth is dying and society will probably collapse in the next 20 years, there’s no “retirement plan”. You either die in your work boots at 90, get shot in the water wars, or starve to death once agricultural zones turn to sand.

    Buy the game you want. Tell that hot person you’re into them. See as much as the world right now as you can.

    Sure, there’s a COL crisis right now in North American, but in 20 years we’ll look back at right now as “the good times”.

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      You’ve forgotten the fourth category: the rich who barricade themselves into a paradise of hoarded resources while everyone else dies.

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        It’s funny that the ruling class is banking on this outcome, without the understanding that to have a functioning society where people don’t just randomly die of disease or infection, you have to have a few thousand people that all live relatively close to each other. Bunker living is just delaying the inevitable death by starvation.

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      Man my kid is going to have such a leg up over all the people who think like this. I hope your hilarious pessimism spreads honestly.

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          Please keep believing this. I have no interest in talking you out of your life choices.

          I don’t care about you. I do care about my kids. It benefits my kids for more people to think like you and give up on their lives. I hope your beliefs become widespread so my kids have life on easy mode.

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              Allowing you to make your own choices is not selfish. Being excited about your bad choices, that you make without my input and that I firmly believe are silly, is not selfish.

              Being happy my kids will have an easy life is not selfish, by definition.

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                Selfish:

                : concerned excessively or exclusively with oneself : seeking or concentrating on one’s own advantage, pleasure, or well-being without regard for others.

                By definition.

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                  My daughter is not me. Your beliefs do not affect me at all. I’m already doing great, and you and i are most assuredly not competing for anything.

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                  My certainty that my kids can outcompetes someone who gives up on life?

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            Just a guess, but I think your kids are going to be assholes. For their sake, I hope the apple rolls down a hill, far from the tree.

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            Your kids are going to have shitty lives if everyone around them has given up on life because the world sucks. Life on easy mode is being born rich.

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              We don’t get to pick when we exist, just play the hands wre dealt. Im happy they’re born into the safest, healthiest, most prosperous time in all of human history, worldwide.

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        Let me guess, you’re one of those “climate change is natural and the Earth has changed climate before a bunch of times periodically!” types of people?

        Turns out, pumping trillions of tons of CO2 into the atmosphere for 150 years is bad for interconnected ecosystems. Notice how it doesn’t really snow anymore in North America, or if it does, it’s a “once in a lifetime” snowpocalypse? Notice how the hurricanes in the south don’t really ever stop now? Notice how Europe floods like a motherfucker now? Notice how many people are dying of heat stroke every year? How every single year is the hottest year in history? Remember when the North Pole existed?

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          Let me guess, you’re one of those “climate change is natural and the Earth has changed climate before a bunch of times periodically!” types of people?

          I’m literally a climate lobbyist for Citizens Climate Lobby. You should join! We always need more passionate people.

          https://citizensclimatelobby.org/

          Statistically speaking, you make around $35k a year.

          I make slightly more than triple that, plus my wife’s income. It’s trivially easy to clear $35k right now, if you’re willing to work some difficult, boring hours. I’ve dedicated my life to a role where I help frontline, unskilled laborers, and my last 2 jobs require 0 skills for our bottom-tier worker and will pay you well over 35k per year.

          My daughter is in college for psychiatric nursing. I’m not worried about her. Entry level salary is about what I make now.

          Also, slight correction - the north pole still exists. It’s just ice free more often. The north pole is a magnetic feature of the planet

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    Nope, the Big Brain Compassionate People have since informed me that the American Dream™ is ONLY that you have the OPPORTUNITY to maybe afford that life.

    So the American Dream™ is that CEOs exist, you can be one. The end. Get fucked Mr.Factory worker, your time passed and even though we still need you we don’t care about your quality of life, just be a CEO.

    It’s amazing, because in that world the American Dream™ is literally impossible to deny. Rich people will always exist and Big Brains will always point to them and say “you can be that” so shut up.

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    Most of the.math here makes total sense but what the fuck is this shit

    Wedding and engagement ring: $35,800

    If anyone here spends $35k on a fuckin ring when you can’t afford hospital stays and shit, let me know so I can come slap some sense into you.

    Like why is this even on the list? It doesn’t even materially change the final outcome.