I dont use read reciepts on WhatsApp. I keep it off. So I cannot see if a person has read my message or the sender of a message cannot see Ihave read their message. Status update views are also hidden.

Other messaging apps also have this feature. I personally don’t like it. Do you?

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    1 year ago

    Fuck no. I prefer my privacy and I also don’t want people getting offended if I read something but don’t feel like responding to it immediately. I would also turn off the three little dots that say I’m typing if I could.

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      I legit hate the typing dots, especially since uasualy if i dont respond im busy or thinking of a reply… and the three dots makes it feel like theres an expectation to reply right then. Also i have a friend that gets offended/internalizes it (yes they have some issues ha) which makes me just not open them till very late in the day

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    1 year ago

    Yes I do, I don’t mind that people see that I read their message and I like to see when others read mine. But if someone ever tells me I should have reacted because I’ve read it, it’s their fault.

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    1 year ago

    Claiming to have missed a message is ~1/4 of all the messages I send. I’m not about to provide proof that I’m lying.

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      1 year ago

      We do know anyways that you’re lying because the phone is always in your pocket. The lying makes you just look bad. But that’s on you.

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    1 year ago

    I have them on, I think it’s quite annoying if there’s something urgent and you can’t tell if the text got read or not.

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    1 year ago

    No. You send me a message, your businesses is done, whether I read it or not is my business. Especially on WhatsApp where there are spammers and debt collectors.

    I don’t mind keeping it on on private messengers with no connection to my identity, like Session or Matrix. But if you can find me via my phone number, nope.

    It’s bizarre how features like these are enabled by default. Same shit with embedding GPS in photos… On by default. Shows what kind of people design these things.

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    1 year ago

    I leave it on and really like having it on. It’s nice to share with someone that I’ve read their message, and it also does not warrant a need to reply to anything.

    It also eliminates the, “oh no just saw this” bs that I’ve noticed at times. If I see a message is read that was maybe time sensitive and do not get a reply, it’s fine and I can plan around that person.

  • ℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@midwest.social
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    1 year ago

    I don’t like read receipts, but I do like delivery notifications.

    Some people have really unrealistic expectations about how fast others should respond to a message.

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    1 year ago

    I love it, it tells me either they haven’t viewed it, so no need to remind them or need to call them if it’s a bit more urgent. If they saw it and didn’t reply, depending on timing and situation, I assume/know that either they’re too busy right now, working on something before replying or forgot and need a reminder.

    Super useful!

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    I use them.

    Text communication is so hard in the first place. I’ll take any tool I can get to make it smoother.

    My model for privacy is: I want to keep corpos out of my business, so that I can feel comfy sharing more with the people I care about.

    If I’m treating my friends like a threat, what’s the point? Might as well not be the real me anywhere, anytime then. At which point, who cares about privacy when it’s not even “you” that you’re keeping private?

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    1 year ago

    I just leave it on because I have no issues with it, if I am ghosting someone I just don’t open that chat. The online stuff however I do turn off.

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    I don’t care enough to turn it off if it’s on by default but I’m also not going out of my way to turn it on either. If somebody has a problem with me leaving their message on read instead of being understanding that people get busy then it’s probably better for me to know that person has some red flags.

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    1 year ago

    As long as the app allows me to preview the message without opening it, I’m fine with turning on read receipts.