• TenderfootGungi@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    There is definitely statistical proof of this. But I would stare it as a percentage of income. I have been to lavish weddings that were not an economic inconvenience for the couple.

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      1 year ago

      Yeah, possibly the most expensive wedding I’ve been to was one where they (rather, the parents) could afford it. And it was lovely — it was first and foremost a party for friends. No dress code, great food, and the only “micromanaging” by bride and groom was to make sure guests were enjoying themselves/remind us that the bar was open. Vows weren’t even a part of the wedding (small, family-only).