• Sotuanduso@lemm.ee
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    1 year ago

    Weird that so many people are being so downvoted for saying that conversation is a healthy thing and “excuse me” is an option.

    • BigNote@lemm.ee
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      1 year ago

      I think it’s because people see it as implying that the fact that one can say “excuse me” implies that it’s therefore OK to be obnoxiously oblivious in public. I could be wrong, but I think that’s what is going on.

      • Scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech
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        1 year ago

        exactly, it shouldn’t have to require asking for you to be courteous. You should just be courteous, unprompted. If you want to have a conversation that’s great, just kindly move off to the side

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        1 year ago

        I meant in comparison to those complaining that people chatting in a grocery store aisle have 0 empathy.