I’ve become just slightly hedonistic - I really enjoy things like tasty food/chocolate. On the other hand, I’ve stopped having too many expectations about my life; sometimes crappy things have to be dealt with or there’s more on my plate than is fair, but that’s just life so I roll with it and do what I need to do without agonizing over it.

I guess bottom line: I don’t sweat the inevitable crummy stuff and I try to really enjoy the rest.