There is apparently a phenomenon in the US now, where parents drive to the school individually to pick up and drop off their children at the beginning and end of the day. Some people I work with even take time off from working to do this. When the parents descend on the school each day there’s insane traffic, cars lined up for miles, all idling their engines. What happened to school buses?

  • maegul (he/they)@lemmy.ml
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    2
    ·
    1 year ago

    I grew up with this culture, unfortunately, never rode a school bus or saw one.

    And yea, it is complete trash. Let’s put tiny vulnerable road-unintelligent children, all running around, in the same place as a bunch of stressed out parents driving cars while mostly thinking about work or not being late for work.

    What could go wrong!

    Shit … let’s reduce the speed limit drastically to prevent accidents! Ok, now it’s just a big fat traffic Jam! Shit … let’s build specialised roads within the school to increase the speed of drop off. Ok … now we’ve lost some of our school grounds and it’s marginally better … except everyone’s driving tanks/four-wheel-drives now so it’s pretty dangerous for kids still! Shit lets …

    Seen all of that. It’s really really dumb and stressful for kids and parents alike.

    • taladar@sh.itjust.works
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      1
      ·
      1 year ago

      They aren’t really like tanks. Tanks have some design considerations for the driver to notice people in front of the vehicle.

  • Billy_Gnosis@lemmy.ml
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    2
    ·
    1 year ago

    My son’s school charges $630 per year to ride the bus. And that is a public school. I still pay for it though, because, 1. I’m not going to spend my time sitting in a line cars every day. Not to mention take time off from work to do it. 2. I want him to experience life. It’s a great place for socialization

    • SuperZutsuki@lemmy.ml
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      2
      ·
      1 year ago

      So what are working class families supposed to do if they can’t afford it and the parents can’t get time off work? The kids just don’t go to school?

    • Mac@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      0
      arrow-down
      2
      ·
      1 year ago

      “It’s a great place for socialization” yeah like being bullied. Lol

      • Billy_Gnosis@lemmy.ml
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        2
        ·
        1 year ago

        Not sure what school your kids go to, that’s type of stuff isn’t an issue for mine. I’m sure things do happen, but that’s part of growing up and learning. It’s called life

  • DidacticDumbass@lemmy.one
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    2
    ·
    1 year ago

    It is so miserable and effectively shuts down a major street. People will tolerate the dumbest things just because it is the status quo.

    • CannaVet@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      1
      ·
      1 year ago

      This is the big thing about carbrains in the US, it’s endemic of a bigger obsession with infinite individuality. Sharing space with another human being is the ULTIMATE taboo. Depressingly far above such things as fascism and pedophilia.

  • lntl@lemmy.ml
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    2
    ·
    edit-2
    1 year ago

    We don’t do school buses anymore? I suppose we have to condition them to drive everywhere in a car from when they’re young.

  • jonjennings@lemmy.ca
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    1
    ·
    1 year ago

    You can’t expect parents to let their kids WALK to school can you? It’s not safe - there’s so many cars around! 🙄

  • gunnervi@kbin.social
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    1
    ·
    1 year ago

    When I was in school, the bus route did not stop near my house, and it was too far to walk, and there was no good bike route (though one exists now). In middle and high school I would often walk or bike to a friend’s house after school but that wasn’t always an option.

    This is a situation forced on us by car-centric city planning

  • kxta@lemmygrad.ml
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    1
    ·
    1 year ago

    where I live, there is pretty much always an elementary school within walking distance.

    yet, they still drive 🤷‍♂️

  • zwerdlds@lemmy.ml
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    1
    ·
    1 year ago

    I live across the street from an elementary school and my driveway is blocked every single day. Including Fridays when I have lunch with my father, who lives out of town, and need to… Park in my driveway. Parents and school districts are inconsiderate fucks.

  • Mcballs1234@lemmy.ml
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    1
    ·
    1 year ago

    Parents these days a lot more protective than they were in the past. Most parents are worried about there kids going missing or some other crap. I honestly wish my mother was less protective, for example I go on bike rides at least 20 to 30 miles at the minimum and my mother always wants to know what my location is all the time. I get that my mother cares about me but being trapped inside a bubble sucks, I remember when I was in middle school and if I stayed out of the house past dark I would be punished, being punished led me to become more anti social and I got addicted to weed and alcohol because I had no escape, thanks to my father. As soon as my father died and I moved out to my grandmas, things did get better, my mother is less over protective, but I feel like I have no say in any matter and I feel like I’m being ignored and I’m trying to get my life started by trying to get a job and trying to get my drivers license, but my mom is always working or is lazy and she won’t help me. I honestly have lost a lot of motivation because of my mother to do anything sometimes then I just get yelled at for doing something I want to do. But things this year have been turning better for me, I found many good life long friends that have helped me through the hardest of times, my friends helped me with the aftermath of my shitty relationship, they stood up for me and told her to fuck off. There are many good people in this world and I hope all of you succeed in the hardest of times find the good in the world. My heart goes out to the people that have over protective parents because most times over protective parents do more harm than good. Yeah I went on rant, but I wish all of you the best of wishes. -David

  • MilesMcBain@fosstodon.org
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    1
    ·
    1 year ago

    @const_void the school traffic situation was the tipping point for getting a #cargobike for us. Much calmer and faster way to do it, with opportunity for spotting and chatting about stuff going on in the neighbourhood. There’s the occasional poor driver behaviour that affects us but it’s quite rare compared what you get in the car.