Are you someone who has left their country of birth to move and settle somewhere else, or who is thinking of doing so in the future? What led you to take that decision, or what is making you consider it? What have your experiences been until now, and what do you expect and hope for in the future?

  • Aria 🏳️‍⚧️🇧🇩@lemmygrad.ml
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    I plan to, because I’m LGBT and my country is very LGBTphobic (to the point of pridefulness - “We will never legalize LGBT” as proudly said by one of our glorious politicians 🙄🙄🙄).

    I really wish to settle in China (or really any of the other AES countries, but I think China first preferrably), but I’m very unsure if I’d succeed; given that I’m leaving after my bachelors are over and plus, I’m unsure if I’d find any work or a place to live in China. Unlike most people, I have no qualms learning Mandarin. I already love the East Asian Languages and their Writing Systems.

    Though, I’ve already heard from one of my tutors that his friend, who studied in China, was forced to return back to the country the day after he graduated. If I face the same situation, it would make leaving my country a total waste of time and resources.

    So unfortunately, as much as I don’t want to, I’m forced to pick European Countries for now. Anglo countries are getting too expensive and fascist; anywhere else and I’d have a really hard time convincing my parents to send me there. They still see the western world as a “rich and prosperous place”.

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      Poland, I presume?

      I have put into consideration the idea of moving to an AES country myself, but the truth is that it’s a rather risky move if you live in the West. If you have higher education it can be an arduous process the one of convalidating your titulation there, and even if you achieve it, depending on your field, you could find yourself living in less than ideal conditions compared to the ones you could have in countries next door to yours: AES countries, particularly China, are doing an outstanding work at developing and granting its peoples better life standards faster than anyone else, but they still have a way to go.

      If you are determined however, and especially if China seems to be one place where your profession can grant you a good life, then don’t let anyone stop you. If you still live with your parents, is there a chance you could save enough until you can safely leave for China yourself?

      • Although I find Poland fascinating for some reason, I’m actually from Bangladesh.

        I’m studying CompSci (well my parents forced me to anyway, but I didn’t rebel much because I do have a wish to to develop games and softwares… though honestly I’d probably rather work in Psychology departments tbh), and I feel like tech companies in China are already full of Chinese Workers and they don’t need anymore. Also, you often hear stories about people going to East/Southeast Asian countries and ending up teaching English for a living.

        During my freshman years, my (not very prestigious) uni gave us an offer about studying to China and apparently the Government of China would give you job opportunities and a place to live there. I was a lib at the time, so I didn’t take the opportunity. Dunno if that door is still open though. Even if it is, it sounds way too good to be true. Think about it, why would the Chinese Government even bother to give non-PRC citizens so many opportunities/benefits? Yeah they’re a Socialist country but I imagine socialist countries to give precedence to their own citizens first (idk why I think this).

        If I do ultimately decide to go to China, I think I might be able to get them on board. I was talking about Central/Latin American countries when I said “I’d have a hard time convincing my parents”. But yeah, maybe I’ll be able to save enough if I combine my allowance and any part-time/freelancing jobs I take (if I do anyway), I’ll need to figure out/calculate the expenses and then some.

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          Latin America can be a good place to start a new life, especially in countries like Chile and Uruguay. That being said, I have always had the impression that Computer Science and other tech-related degrees are above average in opening you gates to a good life in other countries. This may be an uninformed opinion however, as I have never asked around much to people who are actually inside that world.

          First and foremost it’s all about investigating if, aside from the overall quality of life that people have there, your destination is well-suited for you and how willing it is to accept and treat well specialists of your field of work. I considered moving to Norway per example, until I learned that they have an excess of professionals of my field, so I had to begin looking instead to countries around it.

          • I originally intended to specialize in Software and Game Development potentially Web Development too, since I wish to go to that side; but I wonder if I might have to specialize in Data Science and AI instead, because the world seems to go towards that direction when talking about the importance of tech-related degrees. There seems to be some techies in Lemmygrad though, so maybe they know better than us on this subject, so maybe they can chip in with a more informed opinion.

            How do I start investigating though? How did you learn that Norway had enough professionals from your field? And I’d like to know what you meant by “how willing the country would be to accept and treat well-specialists of my field of work”.

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              And I’d like to know what you meant by “how willing the country would be to accept and treat well-specialists of my field of work”.

              You are ideally searching for two things: that your destination is in need of professionals from your field, and that they are willing to give you a pay high enough that you can live a comfortable life there. There are quite a few instances in which a country needs specialists but they are unwilling to offer a good pay in return.

              How do I start investigating though? How did you learn that Norway had enough professionals from your field?

              The way that gives you the best results at obtaining information is at the same time the one that is most direct: ask to the people from the place how easy it is to get a job of your field and how is life there working in your field. There are several communities on the internet dedicated to people of a country in particular: in Reddit you can find them easily, and most of them can easily respond to you if you ask in English.

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    I am. I moved from The Netherlands to Belgium. I did so because of insane housing prices in The Netherlands and also because my girlfriend was studying here.

    So far it has been a mixed experience. Belgium has a better leftist base to build on and I’m glad I was able to join our marxist party. I like the little more laid back approach to life over here and the cost of living is somewhat better too.

    However, I do get treated like an immigrant. Sure, I’m white and from another (similar) European country, but I’m still a foreigner. I don’t experience over the top racism or anything, but I get the occasional racist remarks. I also struggle to connect with Belgian people. The majority of my friends over here are Dutch migrants as well. I have some Belgian friends but they are considered very extravert by other Belgian people. The average Belgian person is very reserved and if you’re not part of their friend group from kindergarten you have a hard time getting into groups. Making friends or even talking to people is easier in The Netherlands and I miss it sometimes.

    Party work made it easier for me to meet new, like minded people. I think the one thing holding me here is the party lol. Eventually I’ll move on to either France or back to The Netherlands. In the meantime I hope to build a better society with our marxist party.

    I would do it again, though. It has been a great life experience to start a new life in another country with another culture, and to be treated as a foreigner. It really made me able to put things into perspective and it made me grow as a person.

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      I was told to consider The Netherlands as a destination for an easier life. Guess it won’t be the top on my list if housing prices are so bad, haha.

      Has anyone in your current party told you if there’s a way you can keep doing useful work while living abroad? I imagine a marxist party could find it useful to keep correspondents abroad.

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    I’m from Canada and would very much like to leave at some point, if only to have a different experience. I’m eligible for an EU passport (with a lot of money and effort) through a grandparent so very much considering going there.

    I’ve also stayed in China for a few months and it was amazing. If I actually had valuable skills and could get employment there, and learn Mandarin ofc which I have tried and failed at thus far, I’d certainly consider moving there too. I know they have a lot of restrictions on foreigners settling there, but perhaps in the future that will change.

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        Italy would be a top choice for sure, anywhere on the Mediterranean would be ideal really. Wouldn’t be opposed to somewhere like Germany or Netherlands either.

        Not EU but I’ve also considered trying to get a short term work visa in the UK and living there for a year or two. Honestly for no reason other than I love football and raves and those things are objectively better there than here.

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          I am currently making plans to leave the Mediterranean myself, so I feel obligated to recommend you to make a lot of research and think about it thoroughly before taking that decision. Coming to the Mediterranean can be a bliss or a nightmare depending on what is it that you do for a living.

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            Yes that is very fair I appreciate it. My family is from Croatia and I have visited there several times for extended periods. My main concern ofc would be income, if I were to live somewhere like that I’d probably consider trying to get a remote IT job or something.

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              If income is a concern then the best you can do is to stay away from cities and towns that are big in tourism. AirBnBs and other similar services have made rent prices become ludicrous, to the point they match the ones of large cities in the Northern EU despite having half of the average wage that they have there.

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    I’ve recently moved to Japan. Never had a will to move to anywhere other than Singapore, Japan or China. So I’m happy with where I am for now.

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    Up until relatively recently I was living as a migrant in the imperial core, I’d done so both for education and for work purposes, and lasted about 4 years before visa complications got me deported. I don’t know if I’m going to be attempting it again anytime soon, since the whole ordeal cost me an arm and a leg, but I’m content to try and get a foothold before I consider anything.

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      Are you from the periphery then? What was your experience while living in the imperial core?

  • I’m not sure what normie libs would call me. I’m a South Asian-descended US-born person who moved to “canada” a few years ago, with no intention of going back…maybe if total decolonization happens in my lifetime. So am I an expat? Immigrant? Transplant? If I had to choose I would go with “exile”. Fuck libs and their labels.

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      I am under the impression that use that has been given to the word “expat” is the one of describing the same phenomenon as immigration but without the negative connotation that the word may carry, so I am with you in that.

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    I am myself someone from Spain who’s going to finish a degree in a couple of years and who’s going to see himself working for the state for just a few cents above minimum wage and even taking a few mandatory 24 hour-long shifts every month that straight up go against EU regulations.

    I have been considering Sweden as a future destination. I will not deny that the prospect of such change is rather intimidating, although I’m every time more inclined for it as the other alternative becomes an increasingly worse state-sponsored exploitation.

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        There’s a total of two (2) of us! Although honestly in a site as small as this one, I would say it’s a rather big coincidence. It’s also hilarious that one can tell it’s healthcare I was talking about just by mentioning 24 hour shifts… Hilariously depressing, that is.

        So, what about you? Have you resigned yourself to taking the MIR or are you too searching for more life north of the Pyrenees?

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          MIR it will be for now… Although my plan is to get a Master’s in Biomedical Engineering and end up designing those cool machines that are used in hospitals. My TFG consists on building an ultrasound machine, which I’m kinda managing to do. Also, anyway, gotta stay for the revolution, right? ;)

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            Also, anyway, gotta stay for the revolution, right? ;)

            Ah, I used to think the same once. But seeing the workload that one has here, I doubt I would even have time to organize at all after the MIR. I already don’t have the time now, so just imagine how things will get later… Besides, ours is an international movement, so if you’re here or there matters little imo.