• sanguine_artichoke@midwest.social
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    1 year ago

    Talking about serious emotional issues or relationship problems with other men is pretty much uniformly crap. Most men are conditioned to not open up, or prefer immature viewpoints about all of that - or are just immature and crude and actually think various stupid and abusive things about women. Unfortunately some women actually prefer that.

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          I don’t understand how this makes the problem less one-sided.

          When an individual thinks abusive and stupid things about a group of people, it’s that’s individuals responsibility and issue.

          That doesn’t change just because you can maybe find a person who prefers you thinking stupid and abusive shit.

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        Decent question really. I guess I was saying that while it’s been disappointing for me, it’s considered desirable and a good attitude by some people.