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Cake day: November 19th, 2023

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  • As a follow on, I’ll give a little more from my experience.

    Where I grew up (child to expat parents in a very third world country), church is holistic - that is, we care for more than just people’s spiritual state. Church organizations run the large majority of healthcare and education, and no one else will. We could get into the weeds about the value of the services provided, but the reality is it’s between that or nothing.

    The schools teach everyone, and the clinics treat everyone, not just Christians. This I believe is (just one) example of what being a Christian is about - loving others unconditionally. Anything that’s contrary to loving others unconditionally is contrary to being a Christian. That doesn’t mean anyone (least of all me) is perfect at doing this, it’s not a yes/no distinction on “being a good Christian”. What matters is where someone’s heart is. But at the same time, if someone’s heart is right, there should be outward signs of this.

    For example, not trying to deep-fry people…



  • I agree, one of the failings of Christian culture (in many/most countries) is a false sense of superiority (edit: to clarify, there should not be a sense of superiority). It causes all too much hurt, and shields those who claim Christianity but do evil.

    I believe this is especially pronounced in religious settings, but it’s true for any power imbalance (family, church, school, government, work, etc). The thing is that any violence, abuse, and hate that come from Christians is so contrary to what we say we believe, it is that much worse - it undoes any of the (nonreligious, materially helpful) good that the Church does.




  • I’m biased (a Christian myself), but the Christians I know are not violent, probably because they’re at least half-decent human beings who at least try to practice what they say they believe (which doesn’t include deepfry oil).

    I know a handful of nuts, some claim to be Christian, some don’t. Of the ones that claim to be Christian, none I know actually seem to live anything close to what they spout off. As a general trend in my circles, they’re the loudest about their faith, the most political/patriotic (either side, but usually right leaning), and most likely to force their beliefs on others. The ones that don’t claim to be Christians are pretty similar, just less hypocritical (opinionated, but not religious).

    The issue is that anyone can claim to be a Christian, and as a Christian it’s not for me to judge and say if they really are genuine or not.

    All that to say, this is a great example of not living out a good Christian faith, at all.