I do find it hotter to watch, but mostly just have enjoyed it on occasion, such an indulgence. Even just with 2 straight guys so many things to do and feel! The ffm probably good if the ladies are into each other but alas, it’s men for me.
And yeah if there was a way to follow people on here, I would, you post great stuff. I don’t onlyfans but hope you are doing well on there and I’m sure if your wife joins you it will pay off.
I can’t say it’s common, and wouldn’t ever have considered asking some random good looking guy to join us, but straight guy MFM is probably more common than you think. When men on the internet talk about threesomes they seem to be thinking about 2 women, but I’ve only done the other kind and it seems like way more fun - I’m straight so nothing really exciting about adding another woman, but two guys? So many things you can do whether they are into each other or not.
I do think it’s more common for couples to approach women though, as I have been propositioned by couples and probably all women have.