I should begin by mentioning that I am (was) a moderator of three subreddits: one large subreddit, one NSFW subreddit and a medical-related subreddit. After u/spez’s calamitous AMA, I joined Lemmy and haven’t looked back. I am really enjoying the Lemmy/KBin vibe. It is very much an alpha (almost beta) product and the ad free, corporate free, decentralized nature of the fediverse has a thrill of its own.

Over the past couple of months, Reddit has done everything it can to show its moderators that they are low-value and easily replaceable. They’ve done this by removing technical tools, killing off third party applications, crippling API changes and jaw-droppingly bad public relations. Heavily used products like /r/toolbox are no longer being actively developed. When Reddit API implements a breaking, non-backwards compatible change, that tool will also die.

Yet the moderators of Reddit continue to moderate. They stay and help Reddit build Reddit. They continue to work for free; to allow Reddit to make money off of their work despite being abused. When I see things like the comment section on this post, I no longer feel sorry for the Reddit moderators still on the site. I see them as a sad, sorry group who cling to the false hope of a corporate turnaround. They could leave Reddit. They should leave Reddit.

These moderators are in an abusive relationship with Reddit, Inc. I might understand the argument, “we built this community, we can’t just abandon it”. But would you give the same advice to someone else in an abusive relationship? I get that the analogy between the mods and the corp is an imperfect one, yet it is similar enough to be valid, in my opinion.

Moderating is really hard. It is hard and thankless and never-ending. Finding good moderators who can handle the marathon nature of the gig is incredibly difficult. If Reddit moderators were to delete their moderating bots, downgrade their automod “code” and dial back their modding efforts to 5 min/week or less, it would materially hurt Reddit as a product.

The sunk-cost fallacy is a real thing. If the Reddit mods understood this, they’d take their talents elsewhere. But as long as they continue to help Reddit build Reddit, one shouldn’t feel sorry for them.

They could leave. I did and I’ve never been happier.

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    So many reddit mods were angry power-hungry assholes. I don’t feel sorry for them just as much as I don’t feel sorry for reddit’s hopeventual collapse. I can’t count how many times I had BS moderation enacted, then when I was perfectly civil, usually just asking for basic clarification as to why something was removed, was instantly silenced from further communication with the mods with threats of potential removal from participation in the sub or reddit entirely. I am not alone in this experience.

    I run a discord server and freely explain to user that they are welcome to disagree with me, openly and freely, as while I run this unofficial community server about an event I don’t own/operate,

    The same is for a reddit mod, especially for broad topics and localities.

    Unfortunately I do see the potential for similar behavior here in the fediverse. I can’t say I know how to address it entirely, but I know I can act the way that’s fair to the community of which I am only an administrator, not a ruler nor creator.

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      Agree 100%. Reddit mods want an echo chamber and if you had a differing opinion they silenced you. I was banned from subs I never knew about because I belonged to a certain wrong think sub. Fuck the mods as far as I’m concerned 90%of them just got exactly what they deserved.

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        Bro I was banned once from world news and then was banned from basically all leftists leaning subreddits the next day.

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        I would debate conservatives on r/conservative and somehow that got me banned from a ton of subreddits.

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      You can move to an instance where the operator has a low tolerance for abusive curators.

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      Literally had my account banned for Calling out power hungry mods.

      One mod was on rspiders and a recounted a take about my gfs friend being bitten by a spider. Perma banned and because I had 3 strikes I was permanently banned from reddit.

      Just fucking stupid. Fuck em all.

      Basically the bouncers of the internet