• technomad@slrpnk.net
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    2 months ago

    Really? I’d consider a movie like 2nd or 3rd date material, but I guess if you’re having an event after it would make sense.

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      2 months ago

      It may help that I’ve never really “cold” dated. Every “first date” I’ve ever been on was with someone whom I was already at least decently friendly, so usually it’s more like I found a movie or event or whatever that we were both interested in. It had not occurred to me that sitting in a dark theater with someone you weren’t terribly familiar with could be something that needed vetting, but upon reflection I can see where that may cause problems. My naive ass just likes movies.