return2ozma@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 3 months agoWhat's a life lesson you learned the hard way that you'd want to share with others to help them avoid the same mistake?message-squaremessage-square244fedilinkarrow-up1229arrow-down116
arrow-up1213arrow-down1message-squareWhat's a life lesson you learned the hard way that you'd want to share with others to help them avoid the same mistake?return2ozma@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 3 months agomessage-square244fedilink
minus-squareLovingHippieCat@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up149·3 months agoIf someone left their partner to be with you, they’re capable of leaving you to be with someone new.
minus-squareScrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.techlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up33arrow-down2·3 months agoThis one is painfully accurate. And doubled if they cheated on their ex. It’s not romantic, you’re not in a movie. They’re a shitty person who cheated on their partner. They will do it to you.
minus-squareXTL@sopuli.xyzlinkfedilinkarrow-up12·3 months agoYes. My usual version of this is “You’re not special. If they lied to someone else, they’ll lie to you.”
minus-squaregi1242@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up27·3 months agoif they’ll cheat with you, they’ll cheat on you
minus-squareToday@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up10·3 months agoOne of my mom’s two best bits of wisdom. The other was I cut, you choose.
minus-squarenorimee@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up3·3 months agoMy mom would have added: You never let someone hit you a second time.
minus-squareTyfud@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up4·3 months agoThis. This one was a rough lesson to learn.
If someone left their partner to be with you, they’re capable of leaving you to be with someone new.
This one is painfully accurate. And doubled if they cheated on their ex. It’s not romantic, you’re not in a movie. They’re a shitty person who cheated on their partner. They will do it to you.
Yes. My usual version of this is “You’re not special. If they lied to someone else, they’ll lie to you.”
if they’ll cheat with you, they’ll cheat on you
One of my mom’s two best bits of wisdom. The other was I cut, you choose.
My mom would have added:
You never let someone hit you a second time.
This. This one was a rough lesson to learn.