Where do you draw the line on divergence?

  • haui@lemmy.giftedmc.com
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    3 months ago

    As a not really native speaker, I struggle to grasp the difference and implications of those two words.

    Do you mean when someone views it as unfavorable or when they disapprove or something else entirely?

    • technomad@slrpnk.netOP
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      2 months ago

      Idiosyncracy is like an odd behavior that a person does, or an odd habit that you personally might have. Everyone has their own idiosyncracies that sort of make them different and unique.

      An anomaly is something that does not happen very often or under normal circumstances.

      I am just comparing the two words in relation to people’s behaviors.

      So really my question is: At what point does something go from being what could be considered a normal behavior, to something that is considered abnormal (Idiosyncracy vs. anomaly) when it comes to Autism?

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        2 months ago

        Oh, thanks for explaining.

        For example, playing around with something repeatedly in opposition to rocking would be what first comes to mind for me.

        Although I would probably argue that depending on the circumstances, culture, etc. the line shifts.

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          2 months ago

          playing around with something repeatedly in opposition to rocking

          What do you mean?

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            2 months ago

            Stimming. Playing around with a pen or other thing is much less obvious than rocking therefore I would argue that its the line you were talking about.

  • Veddit@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    I’d say it’s when it becomes uncomfortable to the other person. So if you’re doing something, but they can get over it, then they’re likely to chalk it up to you being you, but once it goes too far then it gets weird. But it’s not just related to neurodivergence, I’d say it happens for all things, like if someone eats a weird thing or wears too out-there clothes then it moves out of the “yeah, whatever” to “oh, that was a bit weird”.

    Because of this, it also depends on what “normal” is to the other person.