Hello ladies (current and former) of Lemmy (current) - I’m curious how your experience of the male gaze has changed as you moved in and out of young-woman-hood.

How has your opinion of being seen changed through this process?

  • Today@lemmy.world
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    5 months ago

    I’m oblivious and always have been. I assume every smile is a friendly smile and I’m ok chatting with almost anyone. I only really notice if someone says something creepy or touches me too much. My husband accuses me of flirting with everyone.

    • 1984@lemmy.today
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      5 months ago

      This is how you enjoy life. Make people happy being around you, and they do the same for you.