• gravitas_deficiency@sh.itjust.works
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    8 months ago

    The non-offensive word I have seen used for a person who seeks out relationships with homosexual people despite being the opposite gender is “beard”. This is derived from the fact that it helps the male in the relationship present outwardly as a “real man” with a “normal relationship” in settings/societies where homosexuality is not considered acceptable to one degree or another. Also, sometimes homosexual couples of opposite genders will “beard” for each other in a mutually-beneficial dynamic.

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    • Trainguyrom@reddthat.com
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      8 months ago

      Also, sometimes homosexual couples of opposite genders will “beard” for each other in a mutually-beneficial dynamic.

      My parents had some friends who did exactly this for Prom since every attendee was required to have an opposite-sex date. They met the requirement to go through the front door then promptly split and found their actual date for the night (or their friend group if they were single)