why did the app do me like that with the spacing

doesn’t double texting signify you’re anxious and overbearing?

edit lol this is for a music thing

  • vzq@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    9 months ago

    The stigma against double texting is an insecure schoolgirl affectation. Don’t worry about it.

    Personally I detest chain-texts (a whole bunch of short messages in quick succession, like 8-10 or so) because a) I get the impression the writer didn’t want to bother organizing his thoughts before communicating, and expects me to do it for him and b) it makes my phone vibrate/beep a lot and it’s just distracting. But that is not what’s going on here. It’s just two texts with complete sentences.

    TLDR: you’re fine, texting etiquette-wise. Double texting is not really a thing.

    • bisby@lemmy.world
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      9 months ago

      I prefer chain texts when I am engaging in a conversation. It feels more like natural conversation. As a sentence is out of my brain, the recipient has it. Sometimes the thoughts are fully organized, there’s just a linebreak between them, and it’s just a formatting distinction. But there are differences between “sending a text message to relay information” and “having a conversation via SMS”

      The obnoxious part is the constant vibrate/beep per incoming message, but Android has a “minimum time between notification sounds” config option though, I imagine Apple does too, so that has never really bothered me either.