• TeaHands@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Yup, it’s been extremely effective. I got engaged at the end of last year and certain types of people seemed genuinely horrified that I didn’t get a diamond ring.

    Anecdotally though those tended to be older folks so I think maybe it’s losing effectiveness and younger people are seeing how absurd and arbitrary the whole thing is.

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      1 year ago

      Very similar story here, got a ring that we liked and laughed our asses off on the thought of spending thousands on a shiny rock.

      A custom that’s not really a custom that needs to die out.