Stop thinking about your ex, bro

Stop using them and stop letting them live rent free in your head.

Contribute here on Lemmy or other alternatives to help attract new users

It’s seems like they are doing a great job of that by themselves.

Send a gpdr or whatever the California equivlent request to remove all your data. Make sure they remove the data. If they don’t file a complaint with your local regulatory body.

Check and see if they restored any of your deleted comments (spoiler, they have), then sue them under whatever privacy legislation your jurisdiction has.

Reddit who? Never heard of her.