People of lemmy, would you live in a rural area? Why or why not?

  • JoBo@feddit.uk
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    Grew up in the middle of nowhere. No bus. No shop. No pub. It was hell. Left home for the city at the first opportunity and will never go back. I don’t want to be dependent on a car ever again.

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      Honestly I feel like I’m going in your direction just want from middle of nowhere Vermont to Florida for college and man its nice not having to pack water and food to bike 30 miles up and down mountains I’m still amazed by my determination as a kid to get anywhere on bike fr I continued doing that even after I got a car

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      That was my thought too. I’m guessing you’re American. Rural Americans are especially bigoted for some reason. I’ve been to rural areas in other countries and they’re not this bad. People openly stare at you in rural America if you’re not white.

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        Not quite, but it’s very similar. I have an old friend that lived for a couple decades in a VERY progressive, urban area, recently moved closer to me in a smaller town, so I went to see him and, while we are definitely still friends, there were some very dangerous conversation topics covered (carbon climate, EVs which are easy to get me going on). It’s like a conservative brain worm infected him sometime in the past few months, very strange.

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    I would and do. It’s quiet and peaceful, I have forest all around me, no traffic, cost of living is lower.

  • s_s@lemmy.one
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    Rural meaning wilderness, yes.

    Rural meaning farming communities, no.

    I currently live in a small city surrounded by wilderness. Transit could be better, but there’s tons of culture and I can escape to solitude in 15 minutes and it’s divine.

  • Peppycito@sh.itjust.works
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    I live in a town of about 2000 people. It has a grocery, a liquor store, and a hardware store. It’s rural enough. I would never live anywhere I can’t walk to get a bag of chips. Rural sounds good until the power goes out in a snow storm and your lane way is 7 miles long and the plow guy ain’t coming.

  • FartsWithAnAccent@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    There are a lot of aspects of it that really appeal to me, but I’d miss the shit out of using a bicycle as my primary means of transportation and having everything relatively close.

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      To be fair, this largely depends on the country you’re in. Appreciate that the bike is going to be pretty useless in somewhere as car-centric as the US, but I’ve lived in rural areas in the EU where the bike was quite enough.

      • FartsWithAnAccent@lemmy.world
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        I live in the US and my bike is my primary means of transportation, not rural though: When you get more remote, everything of significant distance is highways and it’d be super dangerous trying to ride a bike or even an ebike. You’d need a motorcycle at minimum.

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          Yes, sorry, that was the point I was making (albeit poorly). Rural US is an impossibility unless you have a car.

          • credit crazy@lemmy.world
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            1 year ago

            Unless you’re a 15 year old me who just has a shit ton of stamina water bottles and a even more shit ton of determination to get to a city so I can throw myself around a roundabout

  • diprount_tomato@lemmy.world
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    Just to clarify, I’m from a European country

    Nah, I’d rather just live in towns that are well connected to cities (like bus stops going to that city) while also having rural areas not too far from there

  • SharpieThunderflare@lemmy.ca
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    Absolutely. The beauty of nature is incredible, and being able to enjoy it is important to me. Not to mention there’s not as many people around to mess things up, make things loud/dirty, or be crowded by.

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      Moving to a rural/secluded area has been the best thing ever for my mental health. My commute is gorgeous and there’s nothing better than waltzing around outside naked in the sunshine.

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        there’s nothing better than waltzing around outside naked in the sunshine.

        Oh my goose. It’s been so long since I did this but this brought back memories.

  • GreyShuck@feddit.uk
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    I do and have for most of my life. I lived on an island where my SO and I were the only permanent residents for 8 years.

    I have lived in the suburbs of a couple of large towns/small cities for some years too - and in the centre of an all-but-city and although there is some convenience in those, I’d choose rural any day. The peace, proximity to nature and the ease of getting out for enjoyable walks beats convenience every time for me.

  • HerbalGamer@lemm.ee
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    I live there now and want to go back to the city but also the nature is gorgeous around where I live.

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    Contingent on fiber internet and having a four-wheeel-drive vehicle, yes.

    Snow’s a bitch and so is DSL. Other than that, the solitude would be rad.

    • luckyhunter@lemmy.world
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      I have starlink. Better internet than I ever had in town. We should be getting fiber any day now too.

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    I actually like rural areas, but, in the US, I would never consider living in a rural area for political reasons. Sole exception would be some rural parts of New England.

  • ntzm [he/him]@lemmy.ml
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    No, I’ve done it before. It’s awful being dependent on a car to go anywhere, there’s less to do.

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    Only if its in a blue state. I dont want desantis or some other nutbar trying to turn the state into a shithole.

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        I dont want to live in a state that harasses my friends for the crime of existing or trying to dictate what women do with their own bodies. It isnt just about me. And its not like I am never going to leave my hypothetical ultra rural property. Itd be nice if the areas around weren’t essentially a third would country because of wrong headed/malicious policies