• VanillaGorilla@kbin.social
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    1 year ago

    Eh, life can change wife, life can change husband. Sometimes it’s great for a couple years, then not. Doesn’t mean wife not good. Just not the best fit anymore.

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      1 year ago

      And you should change if you wanna keep your marriage alive. I always wonder why society considers change to be something bad.

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        1 year ago

        It’s dead, Jim.

        We diverged in different directions and split up in friendship. There’s no shame in ending something before both hate eachother.

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          1 year ago

          Nono sure. I wasn’t referring to a specific example. I just see relationship as sth that needs growth and change and not as a never-changing system that has to be kept the same at all costs.

          And yeah change can also lead to speration, which also doesn’t have to be bad. Like in your example.