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    1 year ago

    A) Straights are not ok. We have millenia of horrible, toxic, abusive, patriarchal relationships instilled into every aspect of us. It’s so bad the homophobic usually fear other men treating them the way they would treat women. That’s fucked up.

    B) See A.

    C) See A. But a little more complicated, because I know 14 year old me, and not until 25 year old me was his brain completely finished growing. 14-22 year old me made decisions that he didn’t have the ability to see or understand yet. I feel bad for him. There wasn’t a good structure in place to teach him better.